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There’s no shortage of gurus and coaches all ready to help you “find your purpose.” Sure, it’s a buzzword, but it’s also one of our deepest human needs—to feel like our life means something.
We want to know we made an impact, left our mark, that we matter. It’s nothing new. Humans have been on this meaning finding mission forever, using everything from mythology to personality tests to figure out who we are and why we’re here.
But your purpose isn’t some hidden treasure you have to dig for or a rite of passage you need to complete. It’s written in the stars.
A simple lesson in astrology.
Astrology isn't just woo-woo. It’s grounded in some serious science—stars, planets, math—it’s all there. It’s about energy. And everything is energy—including us and everything we can see or touch. Even matter is 99% empty space, held together by energetic bonds. And here’s the coolest part: we’re literally made of stardust.
The elements that make up your body, like carbon, nitrogen, oxygen, and iron, were created in stars through nuclear fusion. When these stars reached the end of their life cycles, they exploded, scattering these elements across space. Over billions of years, this stardust eventually came together to form the planets, including Earth—and all of us.
So, since we’re literally made of stardust, it makes sense that the stars have a little something to say about us, right?
The magic of your birth chart.
Astrology is the universe’s way of showing how the energy of the stars and planets shape who we are. Picture this: over 2,000 years ago, people started giving names to constellations, snapping sky selfies (birth charts) to capture the exact moment we are born. Even the OG wise men (yes, the three wise men) were into celestial navigation—literally following a star to do their thing.
What makes your chart even more special is that it won’t repeat for another 25,000 years—proof that there is no other soul on Earth quite like you.
Your north node is your purpose.
Science agrees—having a sense of purpose is a major key to our happiness and well-being. But your purpose isn’t some boring checklist—it’s a full on vibe. Your north node represents the qualities you’re ready to embrace as you step into the most confident version of you. It’s not about the end goal—it’s about hitting refresh and embracing what feels truly authentic to you. The universe rewards authenticity, and yes, there’s even physics to back this up (you know I checked).
Your north node is all about how you show up in the world, the energy you bring to the table, and the themes that define your life. Spoiler alert: your purpose is not about hitting milestones like writing a bestseller, raising the perfect kids, or making millions. (Sorry, society and overachieving parents.) Those are just some perks when you’re on the path that’s meant for you.
So yeah, your north node might not tell you how to win the lottery, but it will help you figure out why you’re here—and that’s way more valuable.
Your south node is the old you.
Your south node is your comfort zone—the stuff that comes so naturally, you could do it in your sleep. These are the qualities you’ve been rocking for years, but here’s the catch: it’s time to level up.
When we keep doing the same thing over and over, we plateau—and that’s when life starts to feel a little meh. We’re humans, not robots, right? Life is meant to be an evolution, not a stagnant routine. Your purpose is about stepping into your power and embracing your unique gifts. When you do that, you naturally inspire others to do the same. So, instead of staying stuck in what’s familiar—and kinda boring—it's time to break free and follow what truly lights you up, no matter who’s watching.
How do I find my north node?
Grab a free birth chart or search for a North Node calculator—all you need is your birthday and birthplace. You don’t need your birth time—the North Node shifts signs every 18 months! (Unless you’re one of the rare few born on the exact day it changes.)
Your south node comes in a pair with your north node. For example, if your north node is in Aries, your south node will always be in Libra. Once you look up your north node (☊), check out all the details (including your south node) below.
North Node Aries
South Node Libra
Aries north node: Embrace being the star—be bold and follow what lights you up without hesitation. Your path is all about independence and courage, which will inspire others to follow in your footsteps.
Libra south node: Stop playing the supporting role in your own life. You've mastered harmony and putting others first, but now it’s time to let go of the people pleasing and put yourself first. The world needs your light.
North Node Taurus
South Node Scorpio
Taurus north node: Embrace being the visionary—transform your passions into something lasting and meaningful by embracing the beauty of steady growth. You have more than earned it—it's time to take your finger off the fast forward button.
Scorpio south node: Graduate from being the warrior—you’ve mastered resilience and navigating chaos, but now you are ready to move beyond just surviving and step into peace and ease. Stability doesn’t mean boring—it’s true power.
North Node Gemini
South Node Sagittarius
Gemini north node: Embrace being the connector—your gift is bringing people together in meaningful ways. You thrive when you’re open minded and able to keep things light and fun, effortlessly creating spaces where everyone feels heard and valued.
Sagittarius south node: Take a break from wanderlust. You’ve had lifetimes of adventure—now it's time to create a community where others feel seen and validated. This will bring you the fulfillment you’re truly looking for.
North Node Cancer
South Node Capricorn
Cancer north node: Embrace being the lover. Lean into connection and prioritize what feels right in your heart. Emotional openness will fulfill you in ways external achievements or material success never could.
Capricorn south node: Graduate from being the achiever—you’ve mastered discipline, hard work, and success. It's time to create a life that feels deeply meaningful, not just impressive on the surface. You won't regret it.
North Node Leo
South Node Aquarius
Leo north node: Embrace being the performer. Step into the spotlight and express your creativity and sensuality. This is your time to stand out through full self expression.
Aquarius south node: Take a break from being the intellectual. You are used to relying on logic and reason but it’s time to lead with your heart. When you show up with emotion and authenticity, you inspire others to do the same.
North Node Virgo
South Node Pisces
Virgo north node: Embrace being the boss. You're meant to step into your power and take control—not just support others quietly behind the scenes. Focus your energy and apply a practical approach, then watch your dreams turn into reality.
Pisces south node: Build on your natural gifts as the healer. Your journey of self discovery isn’t just for you—it’s a roadmap for others. People are drawn to you for a reason. You will serve as the bridge, inspiring others to embrace their own healing.
North Node Libra
South Node Aries
Libra north node: Embrace being the artist. Find the balance between independence and giving—without losing yourself. Use your natural gifts to inspire others to feel truly seen, whether in your closest relationships or across the wider world.
Aries south node: Take a break from being the star—let go of always having to do it on your own. Slow everything down and you will find beauty in the balance.
North Node Scorpio
South Node Taurus
Scorpio north node: Embrace being the intuitive. Open up to intimacy and the deeper meaning of life—surround yourself with people who support your highest good. Your depth is magnetic—transform your experiences into something beautiful that can help others.
Taurus south node: Take a break from being the practical one. Trust your intuition and the flow of life. Let go of putting the material world above the magical and only believing in what you can see—let the universe surprise you.
North Node Sagittarius
South Node Gemini
Sagittarius north node: Embrace your role as the free spirit. Dive deep into experiences that expand your perspective and push your boundaries. You are meant to learn, grow, and evolve—all while trusting the universe has a plan and will direct you to the perfect opportunities.
Gemini south node: Build on your natural gift as the social butterfly. You thrive on curiosity and variety but now it’s time to deepen your connections and passions. Less is more—this is the fulfillment you’ve been seeking.
North Node Capricorn
South Node Cancer
Capricorn north node: Embrace your role as the leader. Step into independence and transform your natural compassion into unstoppable ambition. By setting the example, you light the way for others to step into self love—which is the ultimate superpower.
Cancer south node: Take a break from always being the caretaker—shift the love you pour into others into some serious self care. You deserve to feel the energy you generously give to others. It's time to build something just for you.
North Node Aquarius
South Node Leo
Aquarius north node: Embrace being the innovator. Celebrate your uniqueness by creating a space where others feel they belong—whether it’s for the greater good or a cause you deeply care about. Don't be afraid to speak your truth, even if it challenges the status quo—your growth will ignite change and inspire others.
Leo south node: Graduate from the performer—you are ready for something bigger in this life. Share the spotlight with those who admire you and celebrate wins that go beyond just the personal. Turn your passion into legacy.
North Node Pisces
South Node Virgo
Pisces north node: Embrace your role as the healer—stepping fully into your spirituality and creative freedom. This is your time to radiate your light and inspire others to do the same. Your purpose is to bring healing and peace to everything you touch.
Virgo south node: Take a break from being the perfectionist—its time to go with the flow and trust the universe has your back. Your magic is in your presence—use your empathy superpower to connect deeply with others, all while learning to protect your energy.